… the thoughts from a life in the Son-shine State


Say what you want, but we are lazy by nature.

If I had it my way, I wouldn’t do any work.

I want my marriage to be great = Love and serve.
I want money = Work.
I want to be healthy = Exercise and eat right.

With church, it’s the same.

Too many of us see church as a weekend car wash.
Drive thru to clean up and be on your way.
Quick and easy, and cheap.

Or, maybe we don’t go to Church A because the music isn’t our flavor.
Church B has bad preaching.
Church C is full of old people.
Church D serves bad coffee.
Church E…

Here’s a challenge:

It’s not about you.

The reason we become so discontented with churches is because we make it all about us.
Maybe God is directing you to that church because He wants you to serve there.
Maybe the person serving coffee doesn’t know any better, and you can help!

Philippians 2 reminds us, “Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.

Another way of saying is this:

TODAY IS NOT ABOUT YOU.

Let’s ditch the selfish my-way-or-the-highway mentality, and realize that the church is the bride of Christ.
It’s designed to be His way.

Let’s seek to serve the Lord and serve others.
When we do so, I think the church will begin to look more like it should — as a blessing to the world!


Customize.
Pick and choose.
Mix and match.
Have it your way.
DIY.

These are all great options for your clothes, or your computer’s desktop, or your Subway sandwich.

The danger is we like this option so much that it starts to be expected in areas of our lives where it’s not necessarily a relevant option.

Marriage.
Friendship.
Health.
Money.
Faith.

These all have serious limitations when it comes to having things our way.

A major characteristic shared by those on the second list is this:
They don’t come easy.
In order to have these as a positive and effective part of our lives, we must work on, or for them.

And, part of the work involved is this:
All these elements require sacrifice, time, energy…
We have to learn how to change and grow.

When it comes to Church, we tend to treat it the same way we treat the drive-thru menu board — just give me what I want so I can be on my way.

To be continued…

McChurch: I Need It Now.


Microwaves.
Drive-thrus.
Smartphone Apps.
Google.

Get it now, fast, the way you want it.

When ever you need a fix, or a snack, or an explanation, or an update…
It’s right there, at your fingertips, or your car window, or on your plate in seconds.

Our culture of consumerism has driven us to be so quickly pleased, or displeased.

I’m hungry, so let’s go through the McDonald’s drive through.
I know it’s crap, but it will be a quick fill.

I need to know what’s going on, so let’s check the Twitter feed.
Most of it is just noise, but I may get something of value; or at the least I’ll feel connected.

I need to feel good after that regrettable night, so let’s go to church.
I know it’s only surface-level change, but I’ll feel better; and it will hold me over ’till next weekend.

To be continued…

Answers Book For Teens

I really like the new Answers Book For Teens. As someone that has done youth ministry for over six years, this is a book that I would like to have had back when I started. The Answers in Genesis team has done an awesome job answering some of the toughest questions about very relevant, hot topics with today’s teens.

    They give sound, biblical truths for the answers to these topics, which include:

  • Creation vs Evolution
  • Science and Presuppositions
  • Believing the Bible to be True
  • Atheism
  • Sin, Hell, and Punishment
  • Noah’s Flood
  • Sex and Homosexuality
  • Racism
  • And more…

Though this book is written for teens, I would recommend this to anyone. It’s design is edgy and visually stimulating, and it is written in a way that is simple to understand using common, everyday language. It’s an easy read that strengthens your faith, and helps equip you to defend the Bible and to give an answer for the hope that in you.

This book was provided at no charge for the purpose of review by New Leaf Publishing Group and Master Books.